Monday, July 11, 2011

Meet the Parents. Get Official.

I know, I know. I swore up and down I wasn't going to post about Mr. RH all the time... but I changed my mind. Sue me!

Last Friday, Mr. RH and I saw Larry Crowne at the movie theater. It was cute and Mr. RH seemed to enjoy it... but yeah, not cinematic genius. Afterwards we talked for several hours about everything. Blah blah blah, actual talking. Not making out. At some point, he made a comment about us "being official" and gave me the side-eye-question-face.

Being the classy lady that I am, I said... "Well, nobody has asked me yet."

Obviously, I am The Most Awesome at relationships.

Cue Mr. RH asking me to be his girlfriend... or asking me to be official. Or something like that. I honestly don't remember. NICE! 75 hours into a relationship and I don't even remember how it happened.

Lovely.

At least I can look back and remember our first kiss, lo so many days ago.

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On Saturday, it was exactly 1 month since the day he first asked me out. June 9th. I can't believe it's been only a month. It feels like I have known him for years.

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Yesterday, I dragged Mr. RH to the outlet mall south of Indy. It's almost 2 hours from my house but I reeeally like the sports bras that I can only find there... so we trekked. We talked the whole way down and he swears up and down he had a great time shopping with me.

Clearly, the man is deranged.

He dragged me into every store I was interested in and waited like he had all the time in the world. The man is a saint.

Right as we are wrapping up, he gets a call from his mom. She's actually right near his apartment and wondering if he wants to go to lunch in Indy.

Well looky there, what a coincidence. We're in Indy, they're coming to Indy... so I Met the Parents. We went to grab a quick lunch at Don Pablos, which is perfect because Mexican food is delicious but imperfect because I figured his parents would judge me if I needed a margarita at 2 pm on a Sunday. Damn.

So we met his parents and 2 younger brothers. I didn't die instantly, which was a good thing. They were friendly and obviously happy to see Mr. RH.

We dropped easily into the conversation, which was good. I hung back because I am awkward like that.

And then his mom started teasing him about the word he used to describe his younger self -rebellious. She started in razzing him about being so "self-assured" that he has no problem believing in himself... which she and I both agreed was a great trait.

Because he felt ganged up on, Mr. RH got all defensive that we were calling him cocky... and then his mom and I really piled on. It was pretty great. She was laughing, I was smiling, and Mr. RH was pouting because he knew we were right.

All in all, it was a fantastic meet-the-parents. Went as great as could be expected, and Mr. RH told me later that he was quite nervous for them to like me - and he thinks they really, really did.

YAY!

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After lunch, I volunteered to run an errand for my dad which resulted in the most awkward 20 minutes of my life. I stood at a specialty bicycle-parts store and had my dad shouting in my ear about the exact laundry list of items he needed.

Total humiliation, Mr. RH laughed at me the whole time (because I was flustered, duh). He swears he thought it was adorable.

After this, I have a major Sonic craving. So I type in Sonic to the GPS and off we go. 13 miles seems far to drive for Sonic, but I needed a limeade - and it turns out Mr. RH is also obsessed with Sonic. Ten points for him.

We get to the location of Sonic...and there's nothing there. Negative 20 points for the GPS.

I'm pissed but we decide to head over an hour to get home.

On the way home, we ask each other questions and talk about the future. Scary stuff, but I don't feel scared in the slightest.

I'm babbling and all of the sudden I say... "well, when you think you've found The One..."

Silence.

Crickets.

My brain is all oh shiiiit did I seriously just blurt that out? One month and one day after he first asked me out?

He grabs my hand (keep in mind I am driving at least 70 mph on a major highway) and tells me he is really surprised to hear that come out of my mouth.

You and me both, mister.

And then he says that he's glad I said it because he wouldn't have "put it out there" so soon because he was afraid that I would freak out.

Cue warm fuzzies.

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That's all the latest Mr. RH news that's fit to print this early on a Monday morning. Apologies in advance if I made you nauseated with all the sweetness.

Happy Monday!

26 Classy Comments:

R said...

Can I just say how happy i am for you? Hearing about new relationships going well always gives me hope.

MFS said...

Sarah, glad you found such a nice guy, you deserve to be happy! Also it's great that he is just as in to you and is not the type to be easily scared off by being honest!

the girl in the red shoes said...

Sarah I am so happy for you! Sounds like you found a keeper!

Café Moka said...

This is so cute! You totally deserve a nice guy like that!!!

www.ilovecafemoka.blogspot.com

Ashley said...

:) :) :) :) I can totally see you being awesome at meeting the parents. So glad you guys are official!

mrs.mfc said...

:) This just keeps getting better and better and better!!! So excited for you!!!!

Danielle said...

So excited for you!! This is awesome!

Annie said...

AHHHHH!!! SOOOOOO exciting!!!

Jennifer said...

I'm a major advocate of "when you know you know"
I'm incredibly happy for you and Mr. RH ~ Have a blast!

Jessica @ Acting Adult said...

Aww, warm fuzzies! You sound so incredibly happy with him and that's awesome.

Sweet Simplicity said...

I'm so happy for you! Of course, his parents liked you. You are fantastic!

Mrs. Jones said...

You just gave ME the warm fuzzies! Such cute stories! Sounds like a wonderful guy!

Rachel said...

Sigh....even I'm smitten by this whole relationship!! Keep the stories coming!

Deviled Megs said...

All terribly exciting and adorable ;)

Karen said...

aww, love it!! I knew my Husband was "the one" early on too and we'll celebrate 10 yrs of marriage this year. So very happy for you. Oh remind me to tell you one day where we met, it's uber classy, haha!!

Leslie said...

Awwwwww!!!! So cute!!! He sounds so great!

Alexis @bloomedinjune said...

so sweet i could throw up. but i still love it :)

Amanda said...

EEEE this is all so fun and exciting! I literally jsut found your blog and am about to take time out of my busy work day to get updated on your blog.

New follower!!!

Emily said...

You crack me up with your recaps! Sounds like things are moving right along...love it!

-Lauren said...

Hot damn! I love it all. Congrats!!!

Mrs. Jetplane said...

ahhh I adore this part of relationships - the firsts. So happy for you.

Britt said...

I think you are adorable! I knew my now husband was "the one" after a month of dating and had no problem telling him {we were in HS at the time.} 9 years of dating and 3 years of marriage and we are still going strong.

etta said...

It's wonderful to read your warm, fuzzy posts again. :)

Your happiness is adorable.

Clemson Girl said...

I love reading about your new relationship. It's so sweet!

Anne said...

Ahhhhhh!! So happy for you! You totally deserve every ounce of this ooey-gooey new love fabulousness. Soak it up - and keep on sharing! Congrats, girl.

Ana said...

Said it before, I'll say it again. #hesakeeper

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