Monday, September 2, 2013

Happy Wedding Month!!!!!!!

I actually cannot believe it's here.  And that I have approximately FOUR regular days off before the wedding shenanigans start.

And that I feel like I got a LOT of stuff done on the checklist since my last check-in.  Baby steps?



STUFF TO BUY
  • Wedding Jewelry - I think I'm ordering a smaller pair of earrings on Etsy - the chandeliers are just too much.  
  • Garter - ain't got time.
  • Guest Book - still haven't decided on anything
  • Finalize Flower-Girl Dresses - We've hit a major snag.  The dresses were "in stock"... then "delivered in 2-3 weeks"... now back-ordered 4-6 weeks.  As in... multiple weeks past my wedding date.
  • Flower Girl Shoes - Target to the rescue...
  • DIY Toasting Flutes - I've got an idea....
  • Bridesmaids Gifts – all ordered, just need to assemble.
  • Rehearsal Dinner Dress - found one, now I just need some accessories and a cute jacket.
  • Cake Stand and Server - borrowing MOH's
  • Gifts for Parents - maybe just write them a sweet card?
PLANNING
  • Videographer.  My dreams are slowly going away here. 
  • Rehearsal Dinner - working on head count
  • Total up RSVPs - like.... today.  I really have no clue where the head count is at.  Due Friday!
  • Music List to DJ - maybe finished?  I should probably ask Mr. RH.
  • Rehearsal Dinner Activities - fun game with prizes?
  • Find out if I passed the Natural Family Planning class
  • Update Wedding Website - I did a little work here...
  • Update Registry
  • Find a Makeup Artist - I found someone to do MY makeup.... the bridesmaids, maybe not.
  • Hair Trial - Wednesday before the wedding
  • Makeup Trial
  • Second Dress Fitting
  • Meet with Florist and Finalize Flowers, Centerpieces
  • Start to Create Centerpieces - just need to pack them up to be transported
  • Address and Mail Invitations
  • Photo Wish-List for Photographer
  • Bridal Party Transportation from Wedding to Reception
  • Bridal Emergency Kit – put it together. 
PRE-WEDDING
  • Bachelorette Party
  • Bridal Shower 
  • Shower Thank-You-Notes
  • Moving Into Newlywed Apartment
  • Get Marriage License
  • Have Lace Bolero/Wrap (required by church) Tailored 
  • Order Engagement Photo Canvas - no idea if these will actually arrive on time.  I feel like the 1 day holiday is actually going to make them late
  • Confirm Rehearsal with Priest, Bridal Party
  • Wedding Day Itinerary and Schedule (for family and bridal party)
WEDDING
  • Choose Readings for Ceremony
  • Write personalized “intentions” for ceremony. 
  • Find Ceremony Readers, Gift Bearers
  • Pick Ceremony Musicians, Music. 
  • Ceremony Programs
  • Say “I Do”
  • Verify Getaway Car Transportation  (Wedding Week-Of)
RECEPTION
  • Candy Bar – order candy, find containers to use, labels, etc
  • Tasting for Reception Venue
  • Head Count and Final Menu to Caterer – September 6th
  • Seating Chart, Escort Cards
  • Kid-Friendly Reception Entertainment
  • Make “Card Box” for Reception
  • Order Sparklers for Sparkler Exit
  • Coordinate who will be responsible for gifts after wedding - MOH's parents, my dad
  • Tips for Staff
POST-WEDDING-LIFE
  • Honeymoon - booked plane tickets.... 
  • Need to Book a Car for the week...
  • Arrange for Tuxes to be Returned 
  • Thank You Notes


I feel like things have changed a lot since the last list... but yeah, still a LOT left un-checked.  GULP.  And basically 4 days off before the wedding to do it all.

Pray for me. 

8 comments:

  1. You can DO it! :-) Good luck with the final push! It will all be worth it in the end....

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  2. So soon - keep going!!!! You can do it girlfriend!

    xoxo

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  3. Check out Candy Warehouse or something like that. That's where we got the candy for our wedding from!

    Best of luck to you and happy wedding month!

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  4. Have a friend with a flip cam video the ceremony and get some footage of the reception. When you have the cash you can get someone to edit the footage and make it into a true "wedding video"!

    Almost to the finish line!!!!!! Yay!

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  5. I truly love reading your To Do list because it makes me feel like I'm normal! My list is still long and I freak out every now and then too. It's going to be fabulous!!

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  6. dude I just stressed out. I mean, you can do it.

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  7. How about a coffee table book to use as your guest book. Any book with beautiful photographs of your state/city/gardens/whatever. Buy the right kind of permanent markers/pens and let guests choose which page to sign. You'll never look at a guest book again, but a coffee table book will be right in your living room for you to flip through whenever you like.

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