tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post8908262386995153455..comments2024-03-06T05:39:16.955-05:00Comments on Classy and Fabulous: On Boyfriends and BloggingClassy Fab Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00657528206098219881noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-82547218581156373192011-09-26T21:39:26.055-04:002011-09-26T21:39:26.055-04:00I love this post :) I still kind of freak out when...I love this post :) I still kind of freak out when my husband reads my blog so I'm with you on it. But I think he will read it and love you even more! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17036036602583454225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-488928631647820752011-09-23T15:57:50.874-04:002011-09-23T15:57:50.874-04:00Love love love Sarah's comment on this post.
...Love love love Sarah's comment on this post.<br /><br />SHARE THE BLOG!<br /><br />The reason I started to blog again...was because of my boyfriend. :) <br /><br />Can't wait to hear what he thinks!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00264648257398440130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-4033968270601749122011-09-23T15:20:48.429-04:002011-09-23T15:20:48.429-04:00The fact that he is interested in what you are wri...The fact that he is interested in what you are writing here is so sweet! I think he is a keeper!A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05576223848375096549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-88609385408500703182011-09-23T10:14:12.982-04:002011-09-23T10:14:12.982-04:00No. no. no. no a thousand times no!!!!!! There is ...No. no. no. no a thousand times no!!!!!! There is no stinking way you won't start censoring what you say if you have an audience that you're trying to impress (YOUR BOYFRIEND!) And plus, even though things are going amazingly well right now, you're not married yet, and things still could go horribly wrong and then, THEN you (and all of your faithful readers) would regret a thousand times over that you ever let him in to this private world. If you really want to share, print out a few posts and let him read those. But for the love of all things internet, DO NOT give your privacy/anonimity away just yet!!!!!<br />Ahem, just my two cents.....<br />JessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-16890027453311918482011-09-23T09:20:52.098-04:002011-09-23T09:20:52.098-04:00I struggle with the same to-disclose-or-not concep...I struggle with the same to-disclose-or-not concept; by and large, it's been a great thing when I do get found out or accidentally out myself. I say share with the Mr. if you're up for it!Melissa @ I Pick Prettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12300398605721219551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-70741715100183056682011-09-23T00:58:08.738-04:002011-09-23T00:58:08.738-04:00This is what I think... my husband knows I blog, b...This is what I think... my husband knows I blog, but he wouldn't think of reading it, and I think I would be a little hurt if he did. It's like my diary, my innermost thoughts of feelings. You wouldn't read my journal, so why would you read my blog? <br /><br />I completely shut down a blog and started over again once I knew people from work were reading it. I hope I don't have to ever do that again!The Lovely Onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02116016955719774820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-43948967090165582672011-09-22T20:24:03.610-04:002011-09-22T20:24:03.610-04:00I say let him read away! My boyfriend reads my blo...I say let him read away! My boyfriend reads my blog every now and then. I don't think that you put anything on here too personal or anything that you would need to hide from your boyfriend. Also, I think it shows he is curious to learn more about you and by reading your blog, he will learn more about your thoughts. So my vote is to let him read it!<br /><br />PS- How are you able to see if he is reading your blog or not?! I would LOVE to see who is reading my blog! Please share your secret!Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14631325197075690911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-26658082199440213812011-09-22T20:22:47.917-04:002011-09-22T20:22:47.917-04:00yep, let him read, it will be LIBERATING.
And rea...yep, let him read, it will be LIBERATING.<br /><br />And really, he will only love you more.<br /><br />xoxoxdesignHER Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17708634068729401935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-89297267357938125482011-09-22T20:04:25.639-04:002011-09-22T20:04:25.639-04:00I only shared my blog with a few of my real life f...I only shared my blog with a few of my real life friends, and it shocks me how many other people have found it. What kills is me the people who I really know well, who I know read my blog, but they pretend like they don't know about it at all. <br /><br />I'm sure Mr. RH will adore your blog as much as we do once you let him discover it!California Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09547611335469448841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-29014841943623610352011-09-22T17:21:35.359-04:002011-09-22T17:21:35.359-04:00I can totally relate. I don't advertise the fa...I can totally relate. I don't advertise the fact that I blog to my family/friends, but if they happened to come across it... Meh. It's a nice feeling to have your own little corner of the internet to spill your guts out when you don't really want to talk to your "people" about it... I gave my blog url to my best guy friend a couple years ago, and he checks it religiously (thank you, stat counter!). He'll casually bring it up sometimes, but for the most part knows that if I want to talk to him about something I will. But I think letting Mr RH read the blog wouldn't be a bad deal. He loves you and will only get to know and love you more!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18353184351806008874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-60954087107550003402011-09-22T14:44:11.845-04:002011-09-22T14:44:11.845-04:00I think it will endear you to him even more. Also,...I think it will endear you to him even more. Also, can you imagine the perspective you would get if roles were reversed? ;)katie@tulsadetailshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07816292082787421154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-35176765872441393492011-09-22T12:54:00.881-04:002011-09-22T12:54:00.881-04:00I think you've got to let him see it! It's...I think you've got to let him see it! It's one thing for your boyfriend not to read it, but I don't think you could or should keep it private from your husband...! And I'm not psychic or anything, but if you're headed there... :) Better to just get it over with it. The chances are he will read the ones that are important to him (aka not the clothes ones ;) & get to know and understand you better. And then he'll promptly lose interest in keeping up with new posts the same way your brother and dad are all "meh, Sarah blogs. I'm hungry."Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16130254394645494717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-38040515380953013432011-09-22T12:10:08.707-04:002011-09-22T12:10:08.707-04:00I think B can handle the blog. He seems like a dec...I think B can handle the blog. He seems like a decent guy. Besides, this is your hobby. If blogging makes you a freak then, well, let your freak flag fly. The guy already knows how much you shop, so seeing it written out on your blog shouldn't be alarming.<br /><br />My husband knows that I blog and he reads it. He'll ask if I plan to post certain things. If I don't post something cute/sweet he did after a few days, he gives me crap about it. :PCheerful Homemakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18063336645711094029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-4311966351199877642011-09-22T12:08:39.961-04:002011-09-22T12:08:39.961-04:00What do you think you would lose if he reads it? I...What do you think you would lose if he reads it? I'm just curious :)Shireennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-28339203157005239862011-09-22T11:54:26.601-04:002011-09-22T11:54:26.601-04:00My boyfriend has been reading my blog since the da...My boyfriend has been reading my blog since the day we met -- and that's the curse of having a very web-savvy BF! Despite the fact that my last name was, at that time, nowhere associated with my blog -- and that I don't mention my hometown or any other specifics -- he found me very easily just knowing that I blog about books and go by Meg (which is, after all, my name).<br /><br />It scared me at first, I'm not going to lie -- especially because, at the time, I knew I'd written several sort of scathing posts on online dating (and we met through a dating site). In the past, I've also been really frank about heartbreak and other personal matters, and I didn't think I wanted him to know those stories until <i>I</i> was ready to tell him those stories.<br /><br />But it was done -- he was reading. And, over time, I realized that most of my friends and IRL friends were, too, so there was no hiding anything. It made me change my blogging a bit -- there are times I want to solicit honest feedback about something I'm going through, but don't feel comfortable knowing who will read it -- but overall, it's been fine. And another way to keep in touch and share with everyone.Meg @ write meg!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15837479897570974834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-42096529987849063752011-09-22T11:44:49.277-04:002011-09-22T11:44:49.277-04:00haha I love this post! I have always told my paren...haha I love this post! I have always told my parents and friends but I never told my boyfriend about my blog. He somehow stumbled upon it one day. I was like welll... did you read a lot of it? He said, "Only the posts that I thought you would have talked about me in." Typical boy answer. BUT he thinks my blog is precious and wants to send his mom my link. Ah. haha That may be taking me past my comfort zone a little.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12529987704266953283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-26634603677728721702011-09-22T11:31:02.907-04:002011-09-22T11:31:02.907-04:00I'm thinking it sounds totally fun to have a s...I'm thinking it sounds totally fun to have a secret blog that no one knows about. I may have to try it out.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04505353425250731151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-8263459714299640352011-09-22T10:54:35.981-04:002011-09-22T10:54:35.981-04:00QUICK! Go delete all the posts you talked about h...QUICK! Go delete all the posts you talked about how cute all your babies are going to be before he had even kissed you yet!!!<br /><br />In all seriousness though, I agree with the previous poster that said if you were going to start censoring yourself because you know he is going to read it then I would advise against it! My husband knows I blog and could give a crap. So I write whatever I want and don't worry that he will be offended when I write about how useless he is that day. :)Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16553254821263010081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-55649586021110295192011-09-22T10:19:21.835-04:002011-09-22T10:19:21.835-04:00If you don't think you'll start censoring ...If you don't think you'll start censoring yourself if he reads it then go ahead. But if letting him into your little blog world will make you less likely to be as open and honest on here, then I think it's great he's willing to respect your privacy.Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02346958008687492728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-50071907056687034462011-09-22T10:14:59.335-04:002011-09-22T10:14:59.335-04:00Totally let him read it! Kevin was really glad I ...Totally let him read it! Kevin was really glad I started one so he could "know my feelings more." Whatever that means! I never think he reads it then every now and then he says some random comment that makes me know that he totally read that day. Hilarious!Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09595048275264316006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-43349549850189450912011-09-22T10:04:37.552-04:002011-09-22T10:04:37.552-04:00I totally agree with Moosh in Indy. Let him read. ...I totally agree with Moosh in Indy. Let him read. But he should be warned. We love you and your blog - and he better not try to change a thing!Jessie Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13813918466198341752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-62395099739080194612011-09-22T10:02:11.718-04:002011-09-22T10:02:11.718-04:00I pretty much love your blog...I laughed out loud ...I pretty much love your blog...I laughed out loud at the "dumped my ass" line. I think you should let Mr. RH read it -- if those sweet posts about him don't make his ego swell, then nothing will!! :)Jenniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13445500838820552596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-69566241687295682332011-09-22T09:29:30.154-04:002011-09-22T09:29:30.154-04:00I can understand your fears! I get nervous when I ...I can understand your fears! I get nervous when I blog too because I don't know how anyone (my husband, parents, or the general public) is going to perceive me. It is scary because an innocent comment can get totally misinterpreted. But, I think in some ways it has brought my hubby and I closer... he can get into my head a little more (in a good way) and understand me, particularly when I struggle to say certain things out loud. It's a tough call but since you're obviously pondering the idea... maybe it's time. :)<br /><br />Angela <br />www.habitformingsuccess.comAngela C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13900955241397536110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-69955052802009252462011-09-22T09:11:38.693-04:002011-09-22T09:11:38.693-04:00Hi Mr. RH - Sarah's pretty awesome. And you s...Hi Mr. RH - Sarah's pretty awesome. And you should read her blog. so that you can reveal in how amazing she is.<br /><br />Also, she posts cute photos of you.<br /><br />xo,<br />nicolenicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07724862077609081640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7444897551318265393.post-65882962898145652862011-09-22T08:57:08.533-04:002011-09-22T08:57:08.533-04:00Definitely let him read it. Its a great way for hi...Definitely let him read it. Its a great way for him to learn more about you. Its also a fabulous way to drop hints about birthday/christmas/anniversary gifts. <br /><br />In all seriousness though, my bf knew I had a blog but I never wanted him to read it because I was embarassed. Then, when all of my not-so-true-friends found it and starting talking smack about me, I wished he had seen it. He has always been 100% behind everything I do, but it would have been nice for him to have actually known what he was defending. On another note, its very easy to be brutally honest on your blog. You don't have to see reactions as you say things. No matter how good a relationship is there are times your emotions aren't as raw as they could be, this will allow him to see it. I know it will make him love you even more.LawGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14018315082800774917noreply@blogger.com